Not too terrible, never actually physically did anything with the “other man”, but when I dated him he had feelings for a guy who was away in the army, and when the guy asked him to date, Sean said yesl While he was dating me. Now the guy was on the other side of the country, but the fact that he said yes, and shared intimate conversations through whatever means, and they both knew they were dating, then I find it as cheating. The other guy didn’t know about me. Oh, and Sean said yes when the other guy asked him to marry him. While we were still dating. Ugh, life. Mesa, Arizona.