This all started when I was getting ready to go on an over seas mission. I had left for several months of training and my spouse was transferred to a new company. He then “befriended” this female Alyssa Gellys. Come to find out while I was at training and then later deployed he was sleeping with her. ALL THE WHILE SHE IS MARRIED AND HAS CHILDREN with another man. My spouse stated they only said “I love you” to each other because she said it first and he didn’t know how to respond. They continued this relationship the entire time I was gone and only ended it because I found all their Facebook messages.