I’m currently deployed and found out my boyfriend has had a secret facebook this whole time which he used to talk to other woman. I feel so stupid and betrayed. When I met him he was a bum living at home with his mother, no job, no car, but I accepted him as a human being. He moved in with me and I supported him hoping he would get his s*** together… While I’m deployed overseas I find out he’s been using the money I’m making over here to go out to the local bars and pick up on they woman instead of paying our bills. He obviously has moved out since I found out, he’s back to living at home with his mother and no car but I am left with a financial mess I can’t take care of until I come home from deployment. I’m so angry!